I'll mostly stick to the mens, though of course it isn't just the mens, but in all of this nonsense discussion of contraception I really just wonder what the hell is wrong with people. Have these people ever had sex? Do they know any women? Have they not ever given much thought to why they haven't Duggar-sized their familes? Do they not realize that just about every fertile sexually active woman has had a miscarriage at some point (whether those women knew it or not)?
I don't get it. I'm pretty sure all my dudebro friends in college actually understood this stuff. They wanted to get laid, and they didn't want to be responsible for anyone getting pregnant. They had pretty good incentives for actually having conversations with women about how these things worked.