When I was a kid/teen I thought people grew up. I don't mean that I thought adults were all perfect. I had eyes. I just didn't think they behaved the way children do, with narcissistic neediness and unable to usually keep control of those emotions. You know, no tantrums when it's not all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
And then I realized there are adults like Trump.